Wednesday, September 29, 2010

ONE WEEK, Neu Haus & Book Review time!

At this exact time in one week I will be airborne on my plane to San Francisco, and then on to my final destination of Las Vegas. I can't believe it's honestly only a week away. I will be boarding the plane sooner than I can imagine. Especially since I feel as if I have a lot of things to do and get into order because I can leave. This weekend will be my last weekend in Germany for 2 weeks. It also is Bertus' last weekend living in Bonn until Christmas. And that sucks. Big time. He moves back down to Mainz for the next 3 months to work. Hopefully I'll be able to go down there for my birthday weekend or something. That would be nice. But I am getting sidetracked.

ONE WEEK and I will be back on American soil with my beloved, and oh-so-missed American cell phone. I can't wait to just text everyone and call people to catch up. Having friends to actually text/call is going to be awesome. I also am wondering about if I will experience any "Re-entry shock", that many say is actually worse/more extreme than the original culture shock that one feels when moving to a new country. It will be here before I know it, and I can't wait to see my family and friends. Again, don't even get me started on my reunion with Loki and Raven.. oh my god, I'm starting to hyperventilate with anticipation just thinking about it. And let's not forget the initial reason for my trip: my brother's gettin' hitched! I'm so excited for the wedding, although I am a bit terrified by the whole "dress situation". I had a dream last night that my bridesmaid dress didn't fit and I woke up with the feeling of sheer terror. What a nightmare. Also, I (if you haven't heard) have been asked to give a speech. I'm looking forward to saying a few words about both Travis and Lisa, because I love them so much and truly look up to both of them, but now I am nervous that I am going to be expected to get up there and perform a regular stand-up routine. Oh, the pressure is getting to me!!!! AHHHH!!!! But besides all that, I honestly can't even begin to accept that I am going to be seeing everyone in a week's time. I'm so excited and can't believe it's almost here! I mean, as of yesterday, I have been here for 11 months without seeing any of my friends of family, and the second I see them again in the flesh is going to be incredible. But I think I am starting to ramble so on to the next topic.

The New House: This past Monday was the big move day. I was up at 8am to take Emilian and worked throughout the day, either with him, or helping to pack or carrying things for a good solid 12 and 1/2 hours again. It was exhausting as you can imagine, and with all the extra help that we had, we were able to move it all to this house (the new one) all on Monday. Of course 95% of the house is still in boxes, but I spent pretty much all of yesterday unpacking and putting everything away in the kitchen. So at least that room is done. The house is nice, and has a really nice and big yard, but it's location isn't the best. At least not for a young 24 year old wanting to have a social life. The best way I can describe this little sleepy town to others is to say that my initial though when I first drove through it on the way to the new house, all I could think of was the town of Parsons, WV where my grandmother used to live. Although not as pretty :) I haven't had time/the chance to check out the buses/trains to see how long it will take me to get into Bonn, but hopefully I'll be able to this weekend. Because again, if I'm not able to see Bertus before he and I both leave, I'll be heartbroken. The house, however, for Emilian I think is perfect. I think he really likes it here and has been in silly moods ever since we spent the first night here on Monday. He's too cute for words BTW. Here's a picture taken of him last night by Lisa when he was getting ready for bed. I just imagine him as an old man during the colonial period. He just needs an oil lamp and a night cap to complete the look. Too cute.

Now on to everyone's favorite segment: Megan's Reading Corner. Today I'll be reviewing the Millennium Trilogy, better known as the "Girl who blah blah blah" series. Okay, in all seriousness, I finished the 3rd and final book last night, and honestly they're fantastic. They honestly do get better and better as you read them. The first one I thought was great, the second one was even better and the third one, I believe, was brilliant. Really good books and I recommend them to anyone. Bertus was kind enough to order for me from Amazon.de my next book selection that I intend to be my flight home read, which is Official Book Club Selection: A Memoir According to Kathy Griffin. I find her to be hilarious, and have read nothing but good things about her book, so decided to give it a whirl. I fully intend on being the crazy cackling lunatic in the back of the plane while I'm reading. Oh well.

See you all oh so soon! I can't wait to catch up with everyone--11 months of stories built up is a lot! ;) xoxox Megs

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Ten Days.

Seriously, I don't think the next 10 days could go by fast enough. I'm still in the pit of hell, aka in the middle of moving, with what I imagine will be the worst of it, starting tomorrow. Just got to keep my eye on the prize, and that prize is an airline ticket to the New World. 10 more, 10 more, 10 more, I think I can, I think I can, I think I can....

Saturday, September 25, 2010

Eleven Days.

So first of all, I recently have been keeping a "hidden files" blog here on my computer. I want to post them so you all at home really know what I am thinking/feeling/what is going on with me lately, but at the same, I don't feel super comfortable posting everything online for just anyone to read. So I guess I might just keep them my "hidden files" and people can have a look/read later. Or if I ever make all these posts into a book for myself, I will add them and it can be the "Un-Edited Edition". Cool. But with that said, on to the thoughts of the day.

Today is Saturday and we have officially started the whole moving process (again). Yesterday I had a 12 and 1/2 hour work day and by the end of it I wanted to pretty much just start crying. It's just... a lot. That said, I was with Emilian for the day yesterday here, at the house in Bonn, and I think he can read the energy that something is happening because he was just really hard yesterday. Crying almost all day and just really, ugh, yeah I dunno, hard. Then at around 3 or so, Kai had called Lisa and asked for us to all come out to the new house to help. So we got in the car after I fed Emilian and headed out at around 3:45 or so and got to the new house about 30 minutes later. The house is cute and all, but it is definitely in the middle of no-where. It worries me a little that I won't be very happy there at all, considering it was such a hard time for me to meet people and make friends living in a city like Bonn, and now I will be living in a sleepy little town where everyone appears to be (from what I have seen from yesterday) over the age of 70. The house we are moving into, the previous owners left pretty much everything. So we have to go through it all and clean it and then figure out what to do with all this crap. Also, the wallpaper is all being taken down in most of the rooms and everything is being painted. And then of course, there is my room, which again is in the basement (which isn't that big of a deal to me), but at the moment, is in no way livable. So again, I will be staying in what will be Johanna's room until mine is done. Which who knows when that will be. Ugh.. I hate moving. I didn't get home last night from the new house until about 10pm and was absolutely exhausted. I slept until about 11 this morning--it felt great. But now I am up and it's noon and I do not look forward in any way to what will most likely be in store for me today. I got a text from Lisa about 15 minutes ago that read "it would be super if you could help a little bit later". I replied back with yes, of course--because I had already come into this day knowing it was going to suck and that I would be helping with the move again. Ugh. At this point, these next 11 days will probably (and sadly so) be the longest eleven days of my life.

Alright.. just got another text. I need to go pack up Lisa's office into boxes. FML. See everyone soon, I can't wait. xoxo

Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Tones of Home

It's 12:30 on Tuesday, September 21st. I have 15 days left until I will finally be boarding my long flight to my homeland. I can't even wrap my head around how truly excited I am. With my upcoming trip and my ever building excitement, the novelty of living in Europe has begun to wear off and my thoughts are constantly of all the things that make living/being an American great. I can't wait to be back in homes where kitchens are not only larger, but they are usually the focal point of the house. Even my mom's small kitchen, which she always complains about, is the most homey and inviting place in the house, if you ask me. I can't wait to find myself once again sitting on the counter in the corner by the sink having long conversations well into the night with family and friends. For me, kitchens that I have experienced here mean one thing: work. I loath them here. It's never-ending dishes and cooking without a lot of the tools/ingredients I need or want. While I'm on the topic of houses: closets! It would be pretty crazy to walk into a house or an apartment and not have it have any closets of any kind, what-so-ever. Well, that's exactly what you get in homes in Germany. It's the norm. And something else I hate about the housing here. Everyone buys these giant armoire that take up half the room and it just annoys me. Built-in closets, whether they are regular small ones, or walk-ins, they're amazing and I have taken them for granted!

Now that it is fall (aka Football season) I find myself ever more missing the crisp fall air and the changing of the leaves that one finds in Ohio. Sure the same happens here, but I feel as if it goes unnoticed. Wearing jeans and a sweatshirt and drinking a cold beer with friends while settling in to watch your team take the field is something I miss more than anyone can know. I miss going grocery shopping and knowing that I will only have to go to ONE store to find everything I need. Here, if I need 3 things that may not be correlate with eachother (but nothing crazy), say an avocado, balloons for a birthday and shaving cream. You can bet that I will be going to 2 maybe even 3 different places to buy those three things. No joke. And then add on top of that that stores are only open until 8pm and closed all-together on Sundays, and it gets to be really annoying, really quickly. (Especially in my position where the only times I have to go get something at a store would be for 2 hours or so on weekdays and Saturdays when I have off.. and all without a car.. needless to say it's one of the things that even though I should be used to it by now, still drives me insane.

But these are little things in comparison to what I really miss: my family and friends. Obviously these people have always meant the world to me, but I never really thought about it until I was isolated from them. It sucks. I was thinking again that I somehow, even though I have lived here for almost 11 months, I still have no set group of friends. If I didn't have Bertus, I think I would have about 0 social interaction. Sure, I've met a few nice people through Toytown and whatnot, but it never seems to turn into a lasting friendship. For example: let's say this Friday I really want to go to a certain bar or something, if I ask Bertus and he couldn't go then guess what? I can't think of anyone else that I would be able to just call and say "hey, ya wanna go out?!" I have always been a very social person and friends mean the world to me, so to be in another country for almost a year and still basically not have any sucks a lot. I mean, A LOT. I have no one here that I can bitch to if I have a bad day (which is often what I need more than anything..) or to talk about stupid trash TV with, or go to the movies with (I have gone to see 4 movies while here, all of which by myself), or just meet for a beer and gossip. I watched the movie Into the Wild this past weekend with Bertus (which was great BTW), and at the end the character writes something that I really truly believe in also, he wrote:

"Happiness only real when shared"

I just can't wait to be home and be around people that I love, and that I know love me again. (And I'm not even going to get started about Loki and Raven...) So for all of you back home reading this, I can't wait to see you and the next 15 days will hopefully go by quick! xoxox Megan

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Emilian's 1st Birthday and the Countdown Continues

Today is Sunday, September 19th, which means that Emilian turned one this past Wednesday! It was such a nice birthday and he got to spend it with so many family and friends :) He got a lot of cool little new toys and books to play with and even a new swing from his grandma! I think it was a very exciting day for him, and it really was a great birthday. I was able to finish my sock puppets in time, and gave them to him that afternoon. At first he was a little afraid of them, but after a few hours of every now and again demonstrating that they weren't alive, he finally build up the confidence to touch the glued on eyes and stick his finger in the mouth. Now he laughs and smiles at them--which was the result I was originally hoping for--so all is well :)


In other news, today marks the last day of happiness until I leave for the US. I am about to be apart of the number one thing I think everyone on the planet Earth dreads: moving. Starting this upcoming week we begin our move out of this house here in Bonn to the new one Kai and Lisa found in the smaller town in the country, Euskirchen. I only have 2 more weekends here left until I fly home, and I am under the impression that both of those will be spent helping to move into the new house, which, to put it mildly, sucks big time. It is just not something I am looking forward to AT ALL. But they say every cloud has a silver lining, right? Well, I am just trying to look on the bright side and hope that maybe all this keeping busy and extra work will help time go by quicker.. which brings me to my next topic:

I LEAVE FOR AMERICAN SOIL IN 16 DAYS, 14 HOURS, and 20 MINUTES EXACTLY (as of 8:40pm Sept 19, 2010). I don't think anyone understands how truly excited I am to be back and to see everyone and especially have cuddle time with Loki and Raven! Eeeek! I'm just beyond excited! Not to mention the wedding extravaganza that will be taking place in Vegas with all my favorite people! So, so, so, so, so, SO excited! Ahhh. Only thing that does NOT excite me about my journey home: My 17 hours and 40 minutes confined in the plane from Germany to San Francisco, followed by a 4 and 1/2 hour lay-over where I then get on another plane to get me to my final destination of Sin City. Ugh... don't want to think of that now or I'll want to die. So back to the EXCITEMENT OF COMING HOME!!!! YIPPEEE!!!!!! :) :) :) :)

Miss and Love you all more than you know and can't wait to see everyone!!!!!!! xoxoxo MeganO

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

One Week ... Four Weeks

I have two countdowns beginning today. First is that today is Wednesday, September 8th, which means that in ONE week it will be Wednesday, September 15th. Which then of course means that Cutie Bear will be ONE YEAR OLD! I can't believe it! He's gotten so big and so cute and so sweet, I seriously want to eat him up. I'm excited for his birthday, and I am making him a pair of sock puppets as his gift (I know, I know, I'm adorable). I'm also extremely excited for Lisa. She had always been so proud of Emilian (rightfully so, he's the cutest thing ever) and I know she will just be glowing with pride on his first birthday. It will be a fun day filled with silliness, I'm sure :)


Today also begins the countdown for my return visit to the States. Four weeks from today I will be boarding a plane from Düsseldorf and flying to my beloved homeland. I can't even begin to describe how excited I am. I get into my final destination of Las Vegas at around 7:30 or so on that Wednesday night (Las Vegas time--which is 4:30am German time). I'm sure I will be exhausted, but I can't wait to see everyone that very second. My brother's wedding is that Saturday, and I can't believe it's almost here. Travis and Lisa. Married. Weird. I'm so excited. I was also talking with my mom a couple weeks ago and pointing out how although everyone is heading out there for the wedding, essentially, it is as if all my family/neighbors (who are also family of course) are taking a big vacation together. Which I don't know about any of them, but I don't know how we didn't think of this sooner! Southwold Court on vacay in Sin City. Sign me up! After staying in Vegas for the wedding extravaganza, I'll finally be on my way to Columbus. I seriously want to die just thinking about my reunion with my dogs. I can't wait to just cuddle with Loki the ENTIRE time I am home. Ahhh!!! I'm so freaking excited!!!! I just can't wait to see so many people and to have game nights and eat buffalo wings and laugh a lot and tell stories and pick up Suzy Bear (because she's so wee) and cuddle with Loki and hear Happy Howls and watch football as it was intended and drive my car and eat Chipotle (I mean, really..) and text silly things to my friends and be in my kitchen and let the couch eat Emily and I while we're lazy mice and watch True Blood season 3 and go to the library and have Granny crack me up without meaning to and high-five Bob and just basically all-around live the American Dream :) Can't wait to see you all. FOUR WEEKS!

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

So a Costa Rican and American walk into a German bar...

Sorry, there is no punch line to my title. Why you ask? Because it's not a joke, but actually my strange and ever-changing life :) The past Saturday (August 28th) I woke up bright and early to get ready and to head for the u-bahn. I had looked up previous trains and my regional express that I was planning to take from Bonn to Köln let at 10:01am. I got to the ubahn station outside my house and took that to the Bonn Hbf. Once I got off the ubahn, I had about 2 minutes until my train to Cologne left the station. I ran to my platform, waited for about a minute and then boarded and was off! I arrived to the Köln Hbf (main station) a little bit before 10:30. Ariel had given me his itinerary earlier and I knew his train from Amsterdam was supposed to arrive at 10:48. Köln's Hauptbahnhof (main station) is pretty cool (but still has nothing on Berlin's Hbf.. seriously, I still can't get over that place..) so I just hung out there and got a fresh banana and pineapple smoothie and waited. (Yes Naemi, the smoothie it was delicious and I thought about how much you would love it the whole time). As his arrival time drew nearer,  I decided to look up which platform he would be coming into so that I could attempt to meet him at the train, instead of running the risk of him getting lost. I found the information I needed and quickly headed over to the platform. The train was already there, and by the looks of it, had already been unloaded for the most part. So I knew at that moment that Ariel was somewhere in the train station.. now it was my job to try and find him. I had exchanged cell phone numbers with him earlier in the week (his work gave him a phone to use in Amsterdam), but because of my current plan, I wasn't sure that I would be able to call his Dutch phone without receiving a ton of charges. So I didn't call and just hoped that he would get a hold of me. Luckily, he did just that and I received a phone call from him shortly after. He said he was waiting at the Starbucks in the train station, and I told him that I was in another part of the Hbf, but that I would be there in a minute. I walked into the Starbucks and there he was sitting with his little laptop using the free WiFi (man, do I remember those days not so long ago...). It was such a weird feeling to have Ariel, my old Costa Rican family friend meeting up with me in Cologne.. Germany.. Europe.. Very surreal moment. He quickly gathered his things which consisted of only one bag since he was only going to be staying the night. We headed out into the brisk air and walked straight to the adjacent Dom. I tried to give him a little info on the amazing Cathedral and he took pictures and marveled as all do, at the incredible structure. After staying at the Dom for awhile (we didn't go in however), we headed out in search of some Essen :) I felt somewhat bad because I didn't really know what to really show him besides the Dom in Cologne. And as cool of a city as it is, I don't live there--so my tour guide skills are wasted if not in Bonn. But, I did know of a really good cafe that I had been to a couple times with Lisa and Kai and I knew they and I knew they had good breakfast food and coffee, so I headed off toward the part of town I knew it was in.

Like I said, I don't live in Cologne, and to be honest, I hadn't even been there since about March or so when I went out for Pat's (the Minnesota guy who's super cool) birthday. But I was pretty impressed even with myself with my memory of knowing how to get around and where things were. I easily took Ariel on and off the metro without referring to maps, it was kind of weird that I remembered it all so well. We headed for Rudolfplatz and found the cafe I was thinking of and took a sit on the patio area outside. We both had breakfast with eggs, and bacon and a small cucumber salad. It was delicious as always. Towards the end our meal the sky became much grayer and the temperature quickly plummeted. (BTW, it's been RIDICULOUS weather here. Pretty much the last 3 weeks of August felt like November with highs getting no higher than about 65 everyday (17 Celsius for all my European friends). Not to mention rain, rain, rain and oh, rain). We decided to quickly pay and try to find somewhere else to take cover from the coming storm. We left just in time as the rain really started to come down and we headed down the street trying to stay close to the buildings to let their over-hangs and awnings keep us dry. At this point it was going on 1 and the rain was started to come down harder. I found a bar right away that served Reissdorf Kölsch (probably my 3rd favorite behind Gaffel and Mühlen).  Like I said, I didn't really know what to show Ariel, and although there are tons of museums and things in the city he didn't really seem as if that was something he wanted to do, so after the Dom, my only idea was to have him try all of my favorite beers. I ordered us each a Kölsch and Ariel had his first experience with one of my favorite beers :)


After having 2 there (in their smaller, traditional glasses) the rain had let up a little and we decided to head out to see more of the city. The sun was starting to poke through and the weather got much nicer. We headed back toward the direction of the Dom with stops through Neumarkt (which is a big shopping area etc.), and then a quick look at the Friedrich Wilhelm III statue near Heumarkt. At this point the sun was now shining and the weather seemed perfected. We walked over to the area where I had celebrated Elfte Elfte (the one day Karnival taking place on November 11th every year) and found another bar with a lot of outside seating that also served Kölsch, but this time if was my favorite: Gaffel. (Bars here are different from bars in the US in the sense that a bar will always only have one type of beer on draft. In this instance, Kölsch being the beer, each bar has it's own contract with a brewery: Reissdorf, Gaffel, Früh, Mühlen, to name a few, and then only have that one kind of draft). We sat outside and I ordered each of a large Gaffel. The sun was shining, we had 0,5l of fresh drafted Gaffel Kölsch and life was good. Then, out of no where the skies changed once more and it was obvious that more rain was on the way. It started raining really hard and we, along with the others sitting outside, grabbed our beers and ran inside to take cover. It rained heavily for an hour and 1/2 or so, and in this time Ariel and I drank 2 large Gaffel Kölsch's and caught up with each others lives. I still find it so surreal and weird to think that Ariel and I were hanging out in Germany. Life is strange sometimes :) We finally could see that the sun was out again, so we paid and left. By this time it was going on 4:30 or so, so we got on the ubahn and headed back to Rudolfplatz so that Ariel could check into his hotel that he had booked for the night. After the check-in it was 5, and I was not dressed for being able to go out that night. So I decided to head back to Bonn and change and just chill for a bit. I told Ariel that with the amount of time it would take me with the trains and everything, that I probably wouldn't be back for a few hours so he could take a nap or do whatever he wanted. I the hotel at 5 and immediately after walking across the street towards the ubahn another downpour started. But this time, we had hail also. I ran to the stop that had a small overhang and a number of people waiting. I was already soaked in just the matter of minutes it took me to get there. I just laughed to myself and thought "WTF". I had to change ubahns once, and then made it to the Hbf with no problem. I lucked out and there was another Regional Express leaving for Bonn about 3 minutes after I arrived, so I skipped over to the train and got on no problem. I got into Bonn at around 6 or so and had to wait 15 minutes until a ubhan would leave from Bonn Hauptbahnhof toward my stop. I finally arrived home, exhausted and wet at around 6:30. I looked up when other trains would be headed back to Cologne that night and decided to take the later one at 8:30, so that I would have about an hour to relax. I took a quick 20 minute power nap and then it was up to get ready and head back out.

I made it to the hotel Ariel was staying at around 9:15. We then hit the streets to grab a late dinner. The area I told him to book his hotel in (Rudolfplatz/Friesenplatz) is where a lot of the good night life and restaurants in Cologne are, so we were smack in the middle of everything. We went to a small restaurant nearby that I had heard wasn't bad called La Strada. I translated the menu for Ariel and he picked out what he wanted and then I ordered for the two of us and also ordered Ariel a Weizen (a great beer that specially comes for the region of Bavaria). We ate and drank and then decided to leave. Ariel forgot his wallet so we made a detour and returned to the hotel to pick it up. From there we set out toward Friesenplatz to a bar that I had been to numerous times and really like. We probably got to Bar Cologne at around 11 or so and found a table. We stayed there until about 1:30am or so just talking and both enjoying 2 Weizen beers each. Then, we were both pretty tired so we headed back to the hotel to sleep (Ariel booked a room with 2 twin beds so that I could crash there also--super smart idea BTW). I was pretty beat from the long day of what felt like never-ending train rides/ubahns/rain so I fell asleep as soon as I laid down. We both woke up the next morning around 9 or so and I told Ariel that I was going to probably leave soon to get back to Bonn. He showed me his train schedule and I pointed out a train he could take that would make it pretty easy for him to get back to Amsterdam. He decided it would be best to head with me to the Hbf and just leave on the next one out also, than to wait for a later one and risk getting lost in a German city. He checked out and we headed once again the the Rudolfplatz ubahn stop. We made it to the Hauptbahnhof about 10 minutes before his train would leave. AKA, perfect timing. I unfortunately had to wait a little longer, like 25-30 minutes or so until my train would leave. I walked him to his platform and his train was already there. I asked one of the train attendants where the 2nd class cars were and then showed Ariel where he needed to be. We said our quick goodbyes and Ariel boarded his train back to the Netherlands. I then headed toward my platform, grabbing a coffee before I went. After all the trains/ubahns I needed to take, I finally arrived back to my house in Bonn at around noon. It was so great to see Ariel and to have someone to show around. I look forward to a time when my mom or Travis or anyone else might make the trip out here. It's definitely a little bit fun for me to play tour guide :)

I hope all is well with everyone, as always, and hopefully I am back to updating this blog regularly again! Ugh... now just to finish my Paris blog.... ^^ Tschüss xoxo